I just returned home after attending a funeral. You will probably discover, as you grow older, that you attend more and more of these events. I now find, to my consistent amazement, that many of the funerals are for people who are (were) younger than I am.
As you grow older your perspective changes. At age 20, those over 30 seem old; at 40 it is those over 60 who seem pretty ancient; at 60 those over 70: well, it goes on and on.
The point is that we are all headed for the exit. One day it is “is” and the next day it could be “was.” As in, “He (she) IS a pretty nice (rotten, crabby, generous–you name it) person” one day and then, suddenly, it is all past tense, as in “He (she) WAS a…(such and such) kind of person.” Last week, in mentioning this friend to someone, I would have observed “Boy, he sure is a nice guy!” Today, there’s a world of difference.
The funeral I attended today was a cause for grieving and also for rejoicing. One reason is that the individual was a kind, loving, extremely generous, and very well-liked person. The second, and more important reason, reminded me of something that the Apostle Paul said in his first letter to the church at Thessalonica (I Thess. 2:19)–”For what is our hope, or joy, or crown of rejoicing? Is it not even you in the presence of the Lord Jesus at His coming.”
(Whoops, you’re saying, now he’s gotten to preaching; I’m outa here! Well, stick around a few minutes; there could be something here worth thinking about.)
Paul had some very encouraging words regarding his future and the future of other believers in Jesus Christ. He said, “We are confident, yes, well pleased rather to be absent from the body and present with the Lord” (2 Cor. 5:8).
I remember many years ago when a pastor came to our house and talked about personal faith in Jesus. I brushed him off with some bromide about, “Well, I believe that truth is really whatever I decide to believe and if I’m sincere about it, I’ll be okay.”
It reminds me of the people who say confidently, “Well, there are no absolutes,” which, in itself, is an absolutely self-contradictory statement. I feel like suggesting they go to the top of a tall building and jump off. They will discover that the law of gravity has not been rescinded and they are absolutely sure to die.
Anyhow, the point is that, at the funeral of a person who has placed his or her trust in Jesus Christ for forgiveness of sins there is, with the sadness, cause for hope, joy and rejoicing.
The old question is: “Suppose you died today and stood before God and He said, ‘Why should I let you into my heaven?,’ what would you say?”
If asked this, you might say, “Well, I don’t believe in God, or judgment; it is all a bunch of religious nonsense! Hey, that can be your choice. I think there is overwhelming evidence, it anyone will make the effort to examine it, that the Bible is totally trustworthy. As for me, a hopeless sinner saved by grace, “I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that he is able to keep what I have committed to Him until that Day” (2 Tim. 1:12).
There are many absolutes in life and one of them is the certainty that it will end. “It is appointed unto every man once to die, and after this the judgment.” (Hebrews 9:27). No one will argue with the first part of that statement; it is the second part that creates a problem.
Well, if you ever happen to come to my funeral, which I hope will not be soon (God knows) you can rejoice because “I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed unto Him against that Day” (2 Tim. 1:12).
P.S.–Sorry, couldn’t help the preaching. Watch this space. Next time some thoughts about global warming. He won’t read them, but, if he did, they would probably not get cheers from Al (the ocean is at your door) Gore.